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When Cinderella's Slipper Doesn't Fit by Tammy Vice

Friday, June 22, 2018 9:44 AM | Anonymous member

"You cannot put the same shoe on every foot." - Publilius Syrus

I am a serious "Lefty".  I remember sitting in right handed desks at school, with my elbow awkwardly hanging off, as I wrote.  The teacher noted my work was "correct, but messy" most of the time.  There was just no way to write from left to right without smearing the lead across the page.  But I loved to write, so the side of my hand stayed silver gray, with creases from the spiral of the notebook.

Learning to play left handed sports back then was more challenging for me.  When playing baseball, I remember the coach telling me, "Just watch everyone else and do the opposite".  That advice was about as helpful as it sounds. 

Below; Morgan and her "Lefty" swing.  Photo by Dad

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Those memories from my elementary years, as insignificant as they may seem, still whispered "You don't fit".  As a teenager, I decided on my own not to tell my guitar teacher I was left handed.  I learned to play right handed, because I didn't want to be "a problem".  The lack of understanding on everyone's part back then, gave me some first hand experience in the importance of accommodating learning differences.  It's also given me a tender spot for anyone who feels a little out of step with the crowd.

My daughters, Allison and Morgan, also happen to be "Lefties".  As their mom, I've tried to help them realize early on what a waste of energy it is to chase everyone else's normal.  Instead, I hope they are each able to find what best fits them personally, in learning and in life, so they can be their personal best.

Cinderella's slipper was perfect for Cinderella.  Find the life-shoe that's just right, and Left, for you. 

Above; Allison creating a little left handed masterpiece, and Morgan showing off her "comfy tennis slipper shoes".

Until Next Time, Know The Hope!

Tammy


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